Some helpful questions from David Powlison:
What do you love? What do you Hate?
What do you want, desire, crave, lust and wish for? Whose desires do you obey?
What do you seek, aim for, pursue? What are your goals and expectations?
Where do you bank your hopes?
What do you fear? What do you not want? What do you tend to worry about?
Where do you find refuge, safety, comfort, escape, pleasure, security?
Whom must you please? Whose opinion of you counts? From whom do you desire approval
and fear rejection?
